tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3117347535705333114.post6084471126829496568..comments2023-10-04T07:53:59.172-07:00Comments on Just an ordinary woman's interpretations: Sex and the CityEktahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08563464297510852679noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3117347535705333114.post-60805623203121421012008-08-01T20:32:00.000-07:002008-08-01T20:32:00.000-07:00Women are way more stronger than men, undoubtedly,...Women are way more stronger than men, undoubtedly, and what i meant by tender was - marked by, responding to, or expressing the softer emotions. <BR/>Perhaps you are right about the fear of rejection, which is somehow not in me. <BR/>Regards,<BR/>Samsam relanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02173249390148280855noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3117347535705333114.post-66245077592071380702008-08-01T10:47:00.000-07:002008-08-01T10:47:00.000-07:00Hey Sameer, I am happy to see that i did manage to...Hey Sameer, I am happy to see that i did manage to evoke some emotions, some expressions, feelings & views.<BR/>And Shivani i shall be looking forward for your post on this on your blog.<BR/>Both of you are right in your own way but things aren't always as simple as they seem to be. Women aren't tender at all, i think they are much stronger than men. What's tender is the circumstances, the conditioning in which women live, where certain things are acceptable for a man but they are not for a women. It isn't always that easy to be able to overcome these barriers of mind & society. But the good thing is that gradually things are changing.<BR/>Also while I do agree that one shouldn't be hiding emotions and feelings but life isn't as simple. Sometimes it becomes necessary to hide emotions at a given time. And if it is this, whats good for everyone then why not. This ususally happens as you grow up in life, when you have many other responsibilities than just chasing love. The irony is that you don't stop loving what you stop doing is acknowleding it, even to yourself. Also not to forget the fear of rejection, thats another big reason for hiding emotions, though this is the one that one should try and overcome. What one should ask oneself is that many years from now what will i repend more, having confessed my feelings or having not confessed my feelings.<BR/>Cheers! EKTAEktahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08563464297510852679noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3117347535705333114.post-1188149894046322572008-08-01T00:04:00.000-07:002008-08-01T00:04:00.000-07:00Thanks for acknowledging my post shivani :) i thou...Thanks for acknowledging my post shivani :) i thought you already had your blog, and as mine, it is not been taken good care of. a few posts and u vanished. I am happy the way Ekta is handling this however, sure and positive about updating it regularly. ;)sam relanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02173249390148280855noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3117347535705333114.post-47681936305425262002008-08-01T00:00:00.000-07:002008-08-01T00:00:00.000-07:00a very unique kind of post published by you.i tota...a very unique kind of post published by you.i totally agree with your views and the skills that you have saod about women.and ofcorse i agree with what sameer said about a generic problem and not limited to women over 30s.well according to me women very often hide what they want to say or what they want to express,may be it is the comfort level they are looking for or may be they feel that there is always a someone who without listening should understand and feel what we want at that particular point of time.but these emotions and feeling should never be kept hidden atleast from the person you love and care for as it creates distances and differences.and suppressing one's emotions is not good for health it harms and kills us from inside what we call our inner soul.say what you want,do what you feel and express your love the way you feel comfortable and you will see the world,the good and the best things coming to you all the way throught the life.feelings have to be expressed and the same time there should be someone to understand it,love it and care for it.<BR/>well very soon i am going to write on this and create my own blog.and yes always remember the persons who keep the things in their heart and think that someone would come and fetch it out,guys we are mistaken here so be free to express your feelings and start caring for the one's who cares for us and our everything.<BR/>good day to all.<BR/>shivani.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3117347535705333114.post-32937978025622418762008-07-31T21:27:00.000-07:002008-07-31T21:27:00.000-07:00Very well written post. But all I wonder from the ...Very well written post. But all I wonder from the little experience I have is that somewhere this is a generic problem and not limited to women over 30s. Women are made in such a tender way that they do need "the extra care" almost every now and then, and yes, they are worth it. Their strength lies in the love and affection they can give, as a sister, as a mother, or as a wife. The only reason perhaps that creates this as a big common issue is the nature of men, that makes them hide the emotions and be strong. And this too happens after a the initial phase of the relation is over. After the initial <I>wooing</I>, men do tend to become what we guys call <B>STRONG</B>. I used to feel that hiding all the emotions is LIVING STRONG, however, someone has made me realize that its actually living lame. Hiding your emotions so deep that you never are able to see them for yourself is not what emotions are for. They need to be expressed. <BR/>Did I go off topic? :) But I expressed my feelings. Thanks to someone. :) <BR/>In my closing notes, I dedicate a song by Shaggy called <A HREF="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pcc2_lKy58I" REL="nofollow">Strength of a woman</A>, to all the beautiful soles, who we call women. <BR/>Signing off,<BR/><A HREF="http://www.samrelan.com" REL="nofollow">Sam</A>sam relanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02173249390148280855noreply@blogger.com